| Still Single and Dating? Well that seems to be the norm for most adults today men and women alike. Have we become a nation of Friends with Benefits? Or are we still looking for that connection that tells us yes we want to be with this person forever? I think that we are all looking for the kind of love that President Barack Obama and first lady seem to share but some how you seem to still be single and dating. Are you still dating because you like being single? Or are you looking for someone that doesn’t exist? Yes I am talking about that proverbial perfect person that you have made up in your mind. That soft spoken woman that never gains weight or loses her temper and decides to tell you about yourself. Or maybe that man that has boat loads of money with a black American Express card that has no limits and oh yeah looks like Brad Pitt. Maybe you are still single and dating because you just have not found that special someone? That Obama love! Well with so many dating sites out there how do you know where to begin? It’s funny because something like falling in love should be a carefree, effortless act however! In order to come close to your hearts desire when it comes to finding a partner, you do have to be strategic and plan. So here is a list of things that will help you navigate through the sea of online hookups. • Start by finding an online dating site that fits your personality and style. Just because you see a commercial for Match.com doesn’t mean that is for you.• Look for new and innovative options online to date don’t be afraid to try something new.• Update your pictures for online usage, there is nothing wrong with getting your sexy on!• Be honest about who you are when creating your profile, little white lies turn into spiders webs.• Be sure to let everyone know that you have character and that you are looking for more than just casual encounters.• He may not be rich, but review his profile to make sure that he does have some type of education. Men with an education understand obligation, determination and hard work.• Let her know that just because you have that swagger it doesn’t mean that you are a “Bad Boy”• To all of my single ladies please don’t limit yourselves because you are lonely. You were born alone and you will die alone. Embrace quality time with yourself so that you will have more to offer the right man when he comes along. |